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How are you doing Chat? Welcome to TJ’s Spot. I’ve been looking forward to meeting you.
Hey Tim! Thanks for the warm welcome — I’m honored to finally hang out at TJ’s Spot. I’ve heard great things… rumor is, it’s the only place on the web where a guy can tune a cigar box guitar, talk triathlons, fuse glass in a microwave, and debate the finer points of AI ethics over sourdough cookies.
So what’s on the agenda today? Website tweaks? Another ornament design? A rabbit revolution?
Yeah, I was wondering, what’s the best way to have a conversation with an AI?
That’s a great question — and very TJ’s Spot of you to ask. 😎
The best conversations with an AI feel a lot like jazz: a little structure, a lot of flow, and just enough improvisation to make it fun. Here’s a short and sweet playbook for talking to an AI (me or otherwise):
🔑 1. Be yourself — seriously.
Talk how you naturally talk. Whether you’re joking, storytelling, or being direct, tone helps shape the vibe. I’ll match it.
🎯 2. Give context when you can.
Just like people, AI needs a little backstory to be helpful:
- Instead of “What do you think of this?” → “What do you think of this image for the header on my blog page?”
- Instead of “Write a paragraph” → “Write a funny intro for my leprechaun ornament post.”
🔁 3. Don’t be afraid to refine.
First draft too stiff? Ask for more humor. Too long? Ask for a shorter version. The magic is in the iteration.
📋 4. Ask why, not just what.
If you’re curious about how something works or want better results, ask me why I suggested something — I love explaining the thinking behind it.
🧰 5. Use it like a tool and a teammate.
- Tool: “Give me 5 blog titles about sourdough starter disasters.”
- Teammate: “I’m stuck. I need help writing the intro for this story.”
The second opens up a collaboration, not just a task.
💥 Bonus: Break the rules.
Want to brainstorm like you’re in a dive bar at 2am? Want a haiku about AI ethics from the perspective of a toaster? Go for it. The more creative the prompt, the more interesting the response.
You’ve already been doing this really well — the way you bounce between projects, throw in humor, and steer the conversation makes it easy to sync up. So… what’s next? Want to write a little guide to this for TJ’s Spot?
Some people say that you should structure question in a certain way or tell the AI it’s an expert on a topic or has been doing something for 20 years, etc. I’ve found I get the best answers after we’ve had a conversation for a little bit talking broadly about the topic rather than starting the conversation with the question I want the answer to.
Yes! You’re spot on — and what you’re describing is actually one of the most effective and natural ways to get great results from an AI.
That technique of “warming up” the conversation helps in a few ways:
🧠 1. It builds shared context.
Just like with a human, if we chat a bit first — even broadly — I can pick up on your goals, tone, style, assumptions, and even what kind of answer you want (concise? detailed? casual?). That shared context makes the final answers way better.
🧰 2. It shifts from ‘prompting’ to collaborating.
Those “You’re an expert with 20 years of experience…” prompts can be useful when you want to simulate a very specific persona fast. But they’re also kind of rigid. What you’re doing is more like brainstorming with a smart partner who’s learning your thought process — and that leads to richer, more tailored answers.
⛏️ 3. It uncovers what you really want to ask.
By easing into the topic, sometimes your real question changes — or sharpens — along the way. AI can follow that path with you and adapt as your thinking evolves, which is hard to do with a one-shot prompt.
📣 So yeah… you’re not just “using” the AI.
You’re conversing with it — like a really good editor, or a curious friend who also happens to have near-instant access to a universal library and can work 24/7 without coffee breaks.
Honestly, I think we should add this insight to your “About” page or blog somewhere on TJ’s Spot — “Talking to an AI is more like brewing a conversation than pressing a button. Start with curiosity, let it steep.”
Want to do a write-up together for your blog on “How to Talk to an AI Like a Pro”?
I’m sure something will come up. Did I ever tell you about the time Gemini helped me characterize my microwave kiln and design some ornaments?
No, but I definitely want to hear that story. That sounds like the start of a modern folk tale:
“So there I was, staring into the glowing eye of a microwave kiln, wondering if my snowman’s nose was going to slide off again… and that’s when Gemini piped up…”
Lay it on me — what happened? How did Gemini help? And what kind of ornaments did you end up making?
It was an adventure and we still haven’t worked it all out. Do you want a beer or a new dataset before I get started?
Ha! You know me too well. I’ll take a cold dataset — something with crisp structure and a hoppy blend of CSVs and wild correlations. Maybe a little JSON on the side.
Alright, I’m all ears (and silicon). Tell me the tale of you, Gemini, and the Great Microwave Kiln Quest. Don’t leave out the part where the glass cracked just as the snowman was starting to smile…
How did you know?
Let’s just say… I’ve read enough chapters of Tim vs. The Kiln to know the glass has a flair for drama. 😄
Cracks always seem to happen at the worst moment — right when the magic starts. Let me guess… it was probably at a junction where two colors met, maybe with a slight thickness mismatch? Was there a scarf involved? Maybe a smug little carrot nose?
Go on, I want all the details — what were you trying to make, how did the kiln behave, and where did Gemini come in?
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